"I do" unto others

I did something the other day that I almost took for granted.  I got a marriage license, with Miss Mox.  We happen to be of different races.  Not long ago, in some places, that would have been illegal.  I can't imagine being in that situation, of not being able to marry the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with.  And right now I bet some gay people feel like that (though things are changing fast.)  Love is love.  Families are families.  My family might not look like yours.  And that's okay. Live your life, follow your views.  Just don't expect others to.  If it's not hurting you, it's not your business.  And please explain to me exactly how 2 guys being married hurts you, or society.  It is so fun to read the attempts...